To Be with Me: A Trauma Healing Book for Parenting and Children
All of us come into this world hardwired for attachment. We crave being with and learning from others. For young children, and children at heart, that social interaction often comes in the form of play. For parents and children alike, play is a way to be physically and emotionally close. Play has other benefits. In play and playful activities, parents (and all who hold parenting roles) help children build language for their thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations. These activities also help children see how their thoughts, feelings, and environment relate. Children can lead parents through play. This is empowering for children and calming for all involved. Further, parents can teach guidelines in a fun environment. Playful activities are the perfect environment for connection and growth.